A Picture Of The Anxiety Of Working Women Who Postpone Mariage

Authors

  • Cindy Shavira Nabila Psychology, Malikussaleh University
  • Yara Andita Anastasya Psychology, Malikussaleh University
  • Ella Suzanna Psychology, Malikussaleh University

DOI:

https://doi.org/10.37278/jipsi.v8i1.1139

Keywords:

Anxiety, Postponing Mariage, Working Women

Abstract

This study aims to determine the description of anxiety in working women who postpone marriage. The method used is qualitative with a phenomenological approach. Samples were taken using purposive sampling technique, with data collection methods in the form of interviews and observations. The subjects consisted of three working women aged 28–30 years who worked as hospital receptionists, cooks, and entrepreneurs. The results showed that in terms of physical aspects, the subjects experienced dizziness, cold sweats, palpitations, and emotional sensitivity. In terms of behavioral aspects, they avoided serious relationships. In terms of cognitive aspects, the subjects had concerns such as fear of being cheated on, patriarchal husbands, and the assumption that marriage would make life difficult. In conclusion, anxiety in working women who postpone marriage includes physical, behavioral, and cognitive aspects with varying responses.

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Published

2026-06-30

How to Cite

Nabila, C. S., Anastasya, Y. A., & Suzanna, E. (2026). A Picture Of The Anxiety Of Working Women Who Postpone Mariage. JIPSI Jurnal Ilmiah Psikologi, 8(1), 92–98. https://doi.org/10.37278/jipsi.v8i1.1139